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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • Learn to program

    I’m a software engineer. I make really good money. I’m off work this week, but then next week, and also the weekends.

    Go touch grass and walk

    I run every day

    Work out doesnt need to be much.

    This actually is the problem for me. Running and working out actually help. But it only kills a couple hours, and then if I do more it’s not healthy and I’ll injure myself.

    As Jordan Peterson would say go clean up ur room and make your bed.

    Are you shitting me? You’re quoting jordan peterson?


  • This is what I meant by

    I can do stuff during the day, run, chores, etc. But as soon as I’m done, especially at night, I start freaking out and it seems like time stands still.

    I run, and do activities to make the day go by. But that’s not sustainable. I’d love to be able to do like a 7 day adventure race, or try to run a ultra marathon or something crazy like that. But I’m not physically capable of that at the moment (I’m in really good shape, but not at THAT level. I run like 5-10 miles a day at most) and I’d just end up hurting myself trying.






  • What was the common thread from when you met the person? How did you hit it off with them?

    So I’ve been married for 12 years, and we’ve been together since college, where we met. And my wife’s basically the only person I interact with socially. And I think I’m straining my marriage by using her as my crutch. I’ve kind of relied on her for literally all of my socializing, like tagging along with her and her friends. But I’ve recently realized that that’s not healthy and I need someone to talk and interact with independent of her. But it’s really hard.